women are expected to provide a full tocher and betake their economic right – due to the drastic increase of gold coin Price. Literally, they should give up the only asset which could financially support them in the time of living alone in a patriarch society, while the tocher they provide loses its value with the passing of time due to the current inflation.
The next point raised by protesters is encouraging children to turn against their mothers which absolutely should not be ignored. Every couple has the right to decide for divorce, but the children need to have their parents all their lives, lack of which would hurt the children themselves, we need to prevent it from happening. Separation of couples should not lead to children’s being deprived of the relationship with one parent and in separation, neither party should use children as a means of taking revenge on the other.
In our religious and Islamic culture which can be defined as a culture of humanity, human dignity is the basis of social and individual behaviors and human dignity must be preserved all the time in all situations.
For children, preserving the dignity of each parent is a must and a great social life pattern to learn. Despite the separation of husband and wife, children need to respect their parents, because it will prevent them from many types of delinquency in life.
Therefore, it is necessary for these social values to be given special attention in education from an early age, in order to eradicate the culture of hatred and revenge when couples are in the process of divorce. Today’s husband and wives should strengthen their human characters and prevent serious conflicts from harming their children’s psyche and protect them in the face of problems even if they divorce.
Sousan Safaverdi